The ‘Brave Ones’ Respond to ‘Prostate Massage and Male Multiple Orgasm’


After re-posting a blog singing the praises of prostate massage during sexual play…I put out a “call” for real-life experiences…and here’s what I got!

“It’s gotta be done right or it can be painful!”

“As long as the bros can get past butt hole hang ups, it’s a pretty spectacular event.”

“One day I hope to live in world where men will get rid of their butt hole hang ups! Lol.”

“It’s amazing. Only experienced once. Girls don’t know how to do it right. Ha ha ha.”

“I witnessed a man being fisted by his wife he seemed to enjoy it! She started with fingers, then different dildos from small to large, then fist almost to elbow. I myself have given a prostate massage while performing oral. He got very erect and ejaculated quickly! I have also strapped on with a man and he loved it! Lol. I guess its not for everyone but if done correctly can be very satisfying.”

“There is definitely a strong physiological response to having the prostate massaged.”

“The prostate is about the size of a walnut. Best results are one finger inside and moving forward in the same manner as you would stimulate a woman’s “g spot” and at the same time the thumb on the pyraneum placing pressure on the opposite side in a motion similar to rolling a walnut around between those same 2 fingers.”

“don’t know about a guy having multiple orgasms– If u mean one orgasm flowing into a second orgasm. But I have seen men have insane prostate orgasms. Not every guy likes it, but for some, a prostate orgasm is much more intense than a regular orgasm. Aneros toys are good for this. For extra intensity–place a vibrator at the end of the Aneros toy (when the Aneros is inside you). That’s my 2 cents.”

“It’s hot to perform or watch. The experience is unlike any other!There is also an incredible health benefit to prostate massage. In healthy men it wards off prostate issues and reduces symptoms in men who already have them. A fave product is the Aneros…it can be worn all day comfortably for heath benefits or used more aggressively during play. Worth trying for any man who can get over the ‘but I’m not gay’ hurdle.”

there are a plethora of toys, instructional videos and first-hand advice for those “braves” ones out there (wink)…Enjoy and Cheers and a very Happy New Year to all! Dr. NB.


Wet Wednesday…Yes, All Women Can Squirt, Gush…It’s a Biological Function.

I originally posted this blog some time ago…it was for a series I was covering on adult toys…however, recently a friend asked me about g-spot orgasms…and I thought I would revisit the post. I think we can all agree that the pathway to female orgasm is filled with myth and emotion, and yet it doesn’t have to be. Squirting or gushing, is a biological function when the g-spot area is stimulated; therefore, every woman CAN experience this type of orgasm…with a little patience and persistence. I have included some details along with my own experience below…enjoy, ladies…it IS hump-day after all 😉 xxx dr.c.

Welcome to: WET WEDNESDAYS!!!

For our first adventure, I present to you, the 10 Function Risque G Vibrator Waterproof 5.5 Inch Black (as shown below)

IMMEDIATE REVIEW: I JUST finished trying out this product, the Risque G Vibrator, and I must admit…I am still shaking a bit!


I mean first and foremost I KNOW it’s a special G-spot vibe…but…ummmm…in terms of clitoral stimulation


Product Description:
3 popular styles now with 10 functions.Seamless, sleek, and super slim.
10 intense functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation.
Whisper quiet.
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes last function used.ABS with PU Cote (wand)
ABS with Silver Plating (2 AAA batteries)
5.5″ x .75″/14 cm x 2 cm.

Product Review/Test Run:

Quite honestly I didn’t even get the chance to TRY the G-spot “hook” inserted until I recovered from the cyclic orgasms that the 10-speed vibrator illicits! The vibration is VERY strong and the speeds vary in intensity and rhythm, which combine in a titillatingly surprising manner! Not to mention, when you turn it off the memory chip recalls the “orgasm point” from your last use – I knew it was only a matter of time before technology invaded the world of adult toys! INGENIOUS!

As if all this wasn’t enough, the Thin-Mint (yes, I already named mine) is also a G-spot stimulator, and stimulate it does. Yes, I know what you’re saying, “What is all this G-spot business?” I recognize the G-spot isn’t at all that familiar to many and so I have integrated commentary from an additional source (Babeland, NYC) with my own experiences below for your enjoyment:


It’s not a myth, despite what you may have heard — the G-spot exists, and it loves attention! “G-spot” is the common name for a spot on the front of the vaginal wall through which you can stimulate the urethral sponge, an area of spongy tissue surrounding the urethra. All female-bodied people have a G-spot, but not all respond to G-spot stimulation in the same way.

  1. Find it. The G-spot is about 2 inches inside of the vagina towards the belly, just behind the pubic bone. When women are aroused the tissue becomes thickened and can be felt through the vaginal wall. It creates an intense, distinctive sensation when stimulated. For some women, this feeling is similar to the sensation of needing to urinate; if it makes you feel more comfortable, pee before starting your explorations. And for some, stimulation of the G-spot can make them ejaculate.
  • I have found both of these experiences to be true: I feel like I “must pee,” I experience a female-ejaculation…AND the orgasms are without fail unique and extremely intense.

Turn yourself on. The first step is to get turned on. During arousal, the spongy tissue swells with fluid.

  • This was simple, using the vibe for clitoral stimulation paired with a little fantasy.

Add a finger or toy. Now, insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly.

  • You will notice that the vibe is hooked, I simply used it to find my “spot”.

Firm strokes. You’ll know when you hit the G-spot by the distinctive sensation it creates. Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the surface of the vaginal wall; the urethral sponge is behind it, so you’ll need to press. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or crinkly; it’s noticeably different than the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a “come hither” way).

  • Again this was accomplished with use of the toy…and it was evident that I had “hit” the G-spot when an increasingly intense feeling of sensation and pressure began.

Experiment. There is no single “right” technique to find the the G-spot. Others really like to have their clitoris stimulated at the same time that their G-spot is stroked. A partner’s fingers stroking the G-spot during cunnilingus can feel simply divine.

  • Once I was really going, I added the bullet for clitoral stimulation.

Ejaculate (or not)! Pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause female ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. This fluid is different from urine and similar to men’s prostatic fluid. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won’t worry about peeing. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be copious. Objects in the vagina may block the urethra, thus preventing ejaculation. Some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers is removed. While not every woman ejaculates, female ejaculation is not uncommon, and it’s perfectly normal (and can feel great!).

  • Yes, I do this. I did this, just now, copiously! The first time I experienced this phenomenon it was with a partner and the source of a bit of embarrassment until I understood its source. My advice is, “go with it,” this is a natural reaction to intense pleasure and will be an orgasm like no other! We are so very lucky, us women, able to cum multiple times; our orgasms having such variant qualities.

Partners and sexual positions. During partner sex there are some positions that are more conducive for hitting the G-Spot than others. Think geometry. Unless your partner has a curved dildo or penis, it’s the cervix, not the G-spot, that will most likely be stimulated in the standard missionary pose. Doggy-style, or the receptive partner receiving a dildo or penis from behind, puts the G-spot in the bulls-eye a bit better. You can lift your upper body by supporting your hands against a wall or bed, or with the use of “sex furniture” like the Love Bumper, and create a more angled approach to the vagina. Many women find that if they are on top, they can control penetration for better G-spot stimulation.

  • For me, if I am “folded in half” with a sizeable partner, I can easily achieve a G-spot orgasm. Though I will say that at first I had to learn to withstand the intense, almost uncomfortable, pressure that precedes the phenomenal pay-off! I have tried various positions both with a male partner, and with the help of a strap-on with a female partner. The strap-on was a challenge, but I think utilizing this particular vibe would address the geometry issues that were encountered (and I can’t wait to try that theory out). 

This brings my first installment of Wet Wednesdays to a close! Thank you to Katerina’s Closet, please feel free to share any of your adventures with sex toys…share and share alike, I always say!

xxx c.

OhhRings® are here!

These days sex toys are more about getting-the-job-done, there is less creativity and humor than I feel was present back in the hay-days of old skool porn (Remember when you rented films, not stole slips?)…which is why I think this piece tickles me…the kinky side of me!

“What makes OhhRings® so special is the customized wording that lets you know exactly who’s in charge. This message speaks to you when your lover can’t.” 

For those of you who have ever worn a ball-gag you know this is real. Real Funny. Real Sexy. Real Kinky. xxx dr.c.


When your lover wants to give you the ultimate in submission, our sexy OhhRings® are just what you need.


What are they?

Your custom OhhRing® is made from safe, sterile, medical grade plastic and is comfortable for short or long term wear.

Your OhhRing® gently, but forcibly holds your lover’s mouth open into a perfect O shape for whatever you can conceive of.  Use for stuffing your lover’s mouth with objects; fingers, dildos,  panties (or whatever your darkest desires can dream of)  or you can choose to watch them turn into a drooling mess just for you.

What makes OhhRings® so special is the customized wording that lets you know exactly who’s in charge. This message speaks to you when your lover can’t.

What can I have it say?

You can pick any wording you like ! The choices are endless…

Some of our most popular choices include:

  • Fuck Doll

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Sex Dolls…are (Just) Real Enough (NSFW)

via The Daily Grind

The following content is re-blogged…it was just too interesting NOT to grab!

Sex dolls have fascinated me since the first “Real Doll” days and I always assumed that awkward outcasts integrated these synthetic bodies into their emotional as well as sexual lives (see the film “Lars and the Real Girl” for further detail).

However, the more “real” these dolls get (now there is a male version, which looks creepily like someone I know and love, intimately…ha! Imagine that parallel!) and the further and further we de-volve from actual human face-to-face interactions, I begin to wonder…are animatronic or cyborg-like lovers the answer to our future sexual-selves?

Makes one go…hmmmmnnn…But, until then…enjoy the synthetic-man-woman-sex-doll porn below…and feel free to leave your opinion…. xxx dr.c.

These Synthetic Life-Size Sex Dolls Are The Creepiest (Or Hottest) Thing You’ll See Today [NSFW]

If you are in the market for “the most beautiful and the highest quality silicone manikins in the world,” then you are in luck! U.S. company Sinthetics manufactures life-size silicone sex dolls in every imaginable color and gender, and their sexual orientation is up to you of course.

The dolls come with interchangeable flaccid and erect penises and both cut and uncut models depending on how you like your men.

Male Sinthetics start at $5,900 plus shipping, and any upgrades will add to the final price tag.

A small price to pay for an obedient sex companion that will never cheat on you.

Tour the very NSFW gallery below:

And yes, they do have female silicone sex dolls. Meet “Willow”:


Popular Stats on Orgasms: Men vs. Women

Popular Stats on Orgasms: Men vs. Women

As a statistician, I know statistics are wrong (at least) 40% of the time…however I few things struck me about this flyer I pulled off the internet…and that is THE SIMILARITY BETWEEN MEN’S AND WOMEN’S SEXUAL BEHAVIORS! Honestly, I am not shocked about the 25% differential in orgasm (although I would love to know the sample demographics because I imagine older women wouldn’t report the same, winks)…but the use of toys, masturbation, oral sex, sex to reach orgasm was interestingly similar between the genders (I am assuming this is irrespective of sexual orientation). One other stat caught my eye “25% of men and women feel under pressure to reach orgasm during sex”…really? Do you agree? Why? Curiosity is killing the doctor! dr.c.

Thrilling Thursday: Get Wild, Not WET (Adult Sex Product Review)

Truth be told…we all get WET…ladies.

And that fact is both a blessing and a curse, if you will…making sex deliciously slippery AND making it a damn big mess…and depending on how often you are engaging in sex (with yourself and/or another/others) you are washing your sheets A LOT if you tend of the WETTER side of the lubrication continuum.

For me extreme wetness is a frequent reality, one that I have alternately been accepting of and slightly embarassed by for most of my adult life, “Why?” you ask. Well, without going into details, it’s MESSY and truth be told…in the end…someone ALWAYS has to sleep in the wet spot…unless you huddle to the edge of the bed and risk a fall!

So when a friend sent me information about “No More Wet Spot” I was intrigued.


“Now, No One has to sleep on the wet spot!

After years of arguing over who gets the “WetSpot” after sex we decided to do something about it. We’ve come up with this 100% Polyester waterproof blanket that is made with a “cool dry” fleece. It is specifically designed to catch fluids from sex and lube. The 50” X 60” size makes it a great fit for any surface, be it bed, couch, chair, backseat of the car or anywhere else your sex adventure takes you. It’s not bulky and can sit anywhere inconspicuously, cleverly disguised as a throw blanket. The unique bonding process brings together a soft luxurious feel with rugged durability and easy wash ability. The waterproof barrier between the two layers keep you away from your surfaces and your surfaces dry as you play, and once you’ve had your fun, just throw it in the wash and put it away till next time.”

Essentially the product works similarly to those snazzy UnderArmor or Nike running garments that wick water away from your skin surface and keep you dry during long runs. They work. And so, while I haven’t tried this particular product, there is no reason to think that the same logic wouldn’t apply.

Color me EXXXCITED…because now:


If any of you have tested this product please feel free to comment I would love to know what you think…sure beats using a towel!



My Ball Gag: A Lesson in the (Bitter) Sweet Sacrifice of Surrender

I planned to write about something completely different today, however a friend sparked a distant memory and…I was too distracted to think of anything else but:

Ball gags.

To me ball gags represent one of the highest forms of non-physical punishment.

They do not hurt, and restrain only minimally.

No the real domination of the ball gag is…mental.

I know I have told this story before, but it’s a good one:

I was shooting for a BDSM website and one of the shots called for a ball gag with attached nipple clamps. I had already done a couple shots with the clamps and was having quite a lot of fun so of course I responded in the affirmative,

“Yeah sure, bring it on!”

I mean how horrible could it be…right?

The gag was this gorgeous blue color, with handmade silver chains attached to delicate little nipple clamps…harmless and beautiful.

And THAT, my friends, was my error: looks can be terribly deceiving.

And so, enchanted by the royal blue color and shiny silver links I donned the gag and clamps for the shot. As I was waiting for the photographer to set up the lights, something started to happen…




(shit, my lipstick)

I desperately started to try to suck up all of this very non-cosmetic and increasingly offensive DROOL


Despite my efforts it was becoming increasingly apparent that not only could I not suck up the slobber…but also, the flow was increasing…and I was beginning to…


(Oooohhhhhhhh…so, that is why they call it a…)

In a desperate attempt for help I started to whine between my SLURPS


The photographer looked up, with the most satisfied sadistic expression across his face, and said,

“Oh honey, yeah…don’t try to stop it just let it flow!”

I whimpered, in response. (Fine.)

I let it go…and it went. Long disgusting trails of slobber trailed down my entire naked body. And everyone on the shoot was pleased, except me.


It wasn’t that I was suffering, oh who am I kidding…I was suffering! But more than that, I was…ashamed.

The complete and total lack of control of my body was driving me mad…and the alternative choice was not very appealing: choke to death on my own spit…what could I do? I let it go, let all the slime just spew from my mouth.

I will admit there was a certain pleasure in it, but not the kind of self-possessed pleasure I am accustomed to, no this was more like surrender…I surrendered and my reward was…permission to let my body take over.

If you think about it it’s not unlike the experience of an orgasm, for a woman, you have to let go and let your body take over in order to climax… it is also a surrender to the physical that in many ways that must begin with the mental.

So…the next time you have the choice to either preserve your dignity or surrender it…go for the latter…I promise it will be far more instructive and ultimately more satisfying.

Cheers to wetness!