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Wet Wednesdays I: My Day 2 Share a NEW Pleasure – The G-Spot Vibe

In this new incarnation of my previously dubbed Sex Toy Tuesdays, I have decided to return to my “review” of adult toys with a new partner:

Katerina’s Closet is a website that offers adults the chance to explore all of their fantasies through enhancing their sextracurricular activities with certain…aides, shall we say. In working with Katerina’s I will not only be able to offer my readers first hand experience (yes that means I get to test all of the products out) but also pass-on some of the great deals the site has to offer!

And so, without further ado…

Welcome to: WET WEDNESDAYS!!!

For our first adventure, I present to you, the 10 Function Risque G Vibrator Waterproof 5.5 Inch Black (as shown below)

IMMEDIATE REVIEW: I JUST finished trying out this product, the Risque G Vibrator, and I must admit…I am still shaking a bit!

WOWZAS WHAT A VIBRATOR!!

I mean first and foremost I KNOW it’s a special G-spot vibe…but…ummmm…in terms of clitoral stimulation

THIS IS YOUR TOY!

Product Description:
3 popular styles now with 10 functions.Seamless, sleek, and super slim.
10 intense functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation.
Whisper quiet.
State-of-the-art memory chip resumes last function used.ABS with PU Cote (wand)
ABS with Silver Plating (2 AAA batteries)
5.5″ x .75″/14 cm x 2 cm.

**Price at Katerina’s Closet ONLY: $27.22, now 17% off at $ 22.49!**

Product Review/Test Run:

Quite honestly I didn’t even get the chance to TRY the G-spot “hook” inserted until I recovered from the cyclic orgasms that the 10-speed vibrator illicits! The vibration is VERY strong and the speeds vary in intensity and rhythm, which combine in a titillatingly surprising manner! Not to mention, when you turn it off the memory chip recalls the “orgasm point” from your last use – I knew it was only a matter of time before technology invaded the world of adult toys! INGENIOUS!

As if all this wasn’t enough, the Thin-Mint (yes, I already named mine) is also a G-spot stimulator, and stimulate it does. Yes, I know what you’re saying, “What is all this G-spot business?” I recognize the G-spot isn’t at all that familiar to many and so I have integrated commentary from an additional source (Babeland, NYC) with my own experiences below for your enjoyment:

HOW DO I FIND MY G-SPOT?

It’s not a myth, despite what you may have heard — the G-spot exists, and it loves attention! “G-spot” is the common name for a spot on the front of the vaginal wall through which you can stimulate the urethral sponge, an area of spongy tissue surrounding the urethra. All female-bodied people have a G-spot, but not all respond to G-spot stimulation in the same way.

  1. Find it. The G-spot is about 2 inches inside of the vagina towards the belly, just behind the pubic bone. When women are aroused the tissue becomes thickened and can be felt through the vaginal wall. It creates an intense, distinctive sensation when stimulated. For some women, this feeling is similar to the sensation of needing to urinate; if it makes you feel more comfortable, pee before starting your explorations. And for some, stimulation of the G-spot can make them ejaculate.
  • I have found both of these experiences to be true: I feel like I “must pee,” I experience a female-ejaculation…AND the orgasms are without fail unique and extremely intense.

Turn yourself on. The first step is to get turned on. During arousal, the spongy tissue swells with fluid.

  • This was simple, using the vibe for clitoral stimulation paired with a little fantasy.

Add a finger or toy. Now, insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly.

  • You will notice that the vibe is hooked, I simply used it to find my “spot”.

Firm strokes. You’ll know when you hit the G-spot by the distinctive sensation it creates. Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the surface of the vaginal wall; the urethral sponge is behind it, so you’ll need to press. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or crinkly; it’s noticeably different than the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a “come hither” way).

  • Again this was accomplished with use of the toy…and it was evident that I had “hit” the G-spot when an increasingly intense feeling of sensation and pressure began.

Experiment. There is no single “right” technique to find the the G-spot. Others really like to have their clitoris stimulated at the same time that their G-spot is stroked. A partner’s fingers stroking the G-spot during cunnilingus can feel simply divine.

  • Once I was really going, I added the bullet for clitoral stimulation.

Ejaculate (or not)! Pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause female ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. This fluid is different from urine and similar to men’s prostatic fluid. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won’t worry about peeing. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be copious. Objects in the vagina may block the urethra, thus preventing ejaculation. Some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers is removed. While not every woman ejaculates, female ejaculation is not uncommon, and it’s perfectly normal (and can feel great!).

  • Yes, I do this. I did this, just now, copiously! The first time I experienced this phenomenon it was with a partner and the source of a bit of embarrassment until I understood its source. My advice is, “go with it,” this is a natural reaction to intense pleasure and will be an orgasm like no other! We are so very lucky, us women, able to cum multiple times; our orgasms having such variant qualities.

Partners and sexual positions. During partner sex there are some positions that are more conducive for hitting the G-Spot than others. Think geometry. Unless your partner has a curved dildo or penis, it’s the cervix, not the G-spot, that will most likely be stimulated in the standard missionary pose. Doggy-style, or the receptive partner receiving a dildo or penis from behind, puts the G-spot in the bulls-eye a bit better. You can lift your upper body by supporting your hands against a wall or bed, or with the use of “sex furniture” like the Love Bumper, and create a more angled approach to the vagina. Many women find that if they are on top, they can control penetration for better G-spot stimulation.

  • For me, if I am “folded in half” with a sizeable partner, I can easily achieve a G-spot orgasm. Though I will say that at first I had to learn to withstand the intense, almost uncomfortable, pressure that precedes the phenomenal pay-off! I have tried various positions both with a male partner, and with the help of a strap-on with a female partner. The strap-on was a challenge, but I think utilizing this particular vibe would address the geometry issues that were encountered (and I can’t wait to try that theory out). 

This brings my first installment of Wet Wednesdays to a close! Thank you to Katerina’s Closet, please feel free to share any of your adventures with sex toys…share and share alike, I always say!

xxx c.

Sex Toy Tuesday: Pantie Play

You know what I have always dreamed of owning?

A pair of VIBRATING PANTIES!

Do you even have to ask?

The benefits are obvious, let’s discuss the details…

There are of course the cost-conscious vibrating panties, which seem to start at about $19.99 on most of the online sex-toy sites and feature boy-short styling, with a concealed tiny pocket that holds a miniature vibrating bullet.

It is removable, waterproof, and wireless. The key is mobility…wear your panties out for a stimulating dinner or perhaps an up close dance with your lover. These panties have the capability of taking you to new and spontaneous orgasmic heights. And…worn under a harness with a strap-on…well, now we are talking about mutual satisfaction!

However, there are cons…placement being primary. Situating the bullet in the most advantageous position requires some shimmying which may be deemed inappropriate depending where you decide to utilize your vibrating panties. additionally turning them on-and-off necessitates a quick pop into the loo…luckily there exists an upgraded “panty” that seems to have pleasantly rectified some of these issues.

The Berman Astrea Vibrating Panty (top of the line and most easily available), selling for approximately $60 this version features LUX, black stretch-lace (available in a conservative or “skimpy” style) and improved placement to tickle your labia and clit properly.

The kinkiest feature of this stimulating pantie?

IT IS REMOTE CONTROLLED!

Meaning that you can control the vibes, from say…you purse or create even more fun by handing-over the control to an affable partner…stimulation from up to 12-feet away…imagine the POSSIBILITIES!!!!

And with that, I wish you a stimulating evening and a very sexy Sex-Toy Tuesday! Xxx c

 

 

 

Sex-Toy Tuesday: Vibes in disguise!

During a recent visit to a local pharmancy/convenience store chain here in NYC…I discovered something…sneaky…something covert and even, dare I say…INNAPROPRIATE?!?

Right next to the rack of ladies panties hose was THIS:

A VIBRATOR!

Disguised as a Dr.Scholl‘s “Mini Handheld Massager!

The humanity! The horror! What if little Tommy sees this and deems it the perfect gift for Mommy’s, “tight shoulders”?!? What if…I say! Well, of course the answer is…Mommy will find this gift’s ulterior motive most… pleasureful!

Not to mention that the thrifty cost of $14.99 (at Rite Aid) makes this neck massager a/k/a vibrator competitively priced when measured against comparable adult toys such as say The Rabbit, The Rocket, or The Magic Wand. How can this be? Those toys run upwards of $30 retail?!? Well, right away I think about the power…perhaps Dr. Scholl’s (known for shoe/foot products as I recall) doesn’t quite measure up to the high-powered vibes we know and love purchased in “proper” online or local sex-toy shops.

There is only one way to find out…

Yeah…I will have to get back to you on this entry. Hey, what’s the worse case scenario? I am out $14.99 and have a perfectly appropriate neck massager!

Stay Tuned…and enjoy your Sex Toy Tuesday NIGHT!

xxx c.

Sex Toy Tuesday: This CLIT’s for you!

When my girlfriends and I are situated around a bottle of wine, voices punctuated by riotous laughter…discussing the usual:

Life

Love

SEX…

One caveat ALWAYS arises to the subject of vibrators:

“I don’t like to put anything inside me.”

Which is interesting when you consider that these are bisexual and straight girls, having sex with men, making this declaration. And while I have several psychological theories on this phenomenon, spanning from unease with one’s body as an independent sexual-subject (e.g. “fucking myself like ‘you’ fuck me,” creates conflictual feelings) to latent preferential clitoral technique (e.g. “I have always masturbated like this”). Regardless of the motivation, the truth remains:

Many women prefer adult sex toys that exclusively stimulate their clitoris.

And so, in honor of these women (I was one until recently, but we’ll discuss that in a later entry) I present:

CLIT VIBRATORS FOR SEX TOY TUESDAY!

Let’s start with an old standard:

The bullet

Small, classic, sleek, and simple…it has been around forever! Long enough to create a solid reputation as the “little sex toy that could”! More recent updates include a multi-speed version that boosts the amperage a bit…bringing me to my only criticism of The Bullet: not quiet enough power! As much as I am tickled by the vibes, I can never…quite…get THERE! Frustrating? Yes…but that is why we have fingers I suppose…wait…while not technically a sex toy:

FINGERS


Are THE ORIGINAL clit-stimulator, the one most of us turn to in times of…trouble!

But on to the next…

The Butterfly…this alienesque looking toy actually straps on delicately vibing your most sensitive areas. While I haven’t personally used this toy…it both fascinates AND frightens me just a bit. It is so pretty and it’s shape illustrates pleasure BUT…the fact that it’s strapped-on, making it difficult to adjust or REMOVE…for someone as sensitive as me…renders this toy a tad too intense for my taste…BUT if intense is what you desire then I would say The Butterfly is for you!

There are also the various nubby finger vibes.

Basically, The Bullet buckled onto your finger these tiny toys offer the organic shaping of The Butterfly’s body with the ability to move…to…just…where…you WANT IT! Certainly an improvement on an old classic…yet, I often find again that I have to use this toy in  tandem with another aide, which certainly isn’t a bad thing…if you don’t mind a bed full of toys! Ha!

Finally, I must mention my Favorite Clit-Vibe:

The Pocket Rocket

It is old…maybe 20 years! But…you cannot beat it’s power. No need for another toy, grab your rocket and go…which brings me to an added benefit, it is travel-friendly due to it’s all-in-one qualities: strong vibe, multiple levels of vibration, compact size, adequate shaping if you require “a little” insertion, and they even come with nubbly silicone sleeves for an added…tickle!

Whatever you decide to use…just remember Sex Toys are tools of desire…and so, WHATEVER  your desire is (as long as it’s not dangerous) indulge friends, INDULGE!

xxx c.

Sex Toy Tuesday (#6): Don’t you just LOVE a good TICKLE?

Who doesn’t like a little tickle?

Okay…truly sometimes tickles can turn quickly to torture when the tickler gets a tad sadistic…but here…I am referring to a DIFFERENT type of tickling…one that focuses on…the female erogenous zone:

THE FRENCH TICKLER!

These cartoon-like little creatures…admittedly look super silly…like a sea anemone

except for their distinctive quality as a SEX TOY!

While the origin of the French Tickler appears to be shrouded in mystery…their purpose is clear:

French tickler is a latex condom that is designed with additional protrusions, for enhancing the sexual pleasure of the user.

A typical French Tickler uses a number of bumps, crests and falls in the lining of the latex ostensibly to make sexual intercourse more enjoyable or pleasurable for the recipient. They may also have hair-like protrusions.-Wikipedia

These little creatures are available at most erotic boutiques and even the most…exotic looking (and they do get quite elaborate) can be acquired for less than $4…making this week’s edition quite a nice bargain! An inexpensive nocturnal foray with your partner into “Fantasy Penis Land”…if you will! Heehee!

All jokes aside…this is a useful and fun adult-toy. I have personally enjoyed various french tickler incarnations on more than one occasion and can vouch for their highly titillating qualities! They can be used both externally and internally…and always merit multiple giggles of pleasure!

So next time you are out and about…shopping for something for some naughty fun…pick a couple up! Give it a try…because nothing is better than a good…satisfying tickle!

…oh and they double as a wicked fashion statement as well:

Hee hee…enjoy! xxx c.