Sometimes the night lends itself to playful imaginings…
Sometimes…I have to undress in order to play dress-up…
For you.
This night I mingled fantasies with LastnightsParty.com at Webster Hall’s in famous Trash party, with host Kris Khaos…
and what a lovely time we had mixing nothing but
lipstick,
Jeffery Campbell,
tattoos
sound equipment,
a mic,
and a tongue.
Thank you for loaning me your lens…and cheers to weekend memories
xxx conchita.
I have always loved ropes…I took to ropes in a way I never did to the whips, or clamps, or verbal barbs of BDSM.
Bondage feels natural, to me; it feels like home.
When I am wrapped (bound) I feel safe, complete, protected…in my restraint. As if I can finally give up on all of the struggles in daily life and just relax into the ropes…the ropes will support me…they will hold me…and if I release…they will deliver me from pain into pleasure.
When I bind another, I feel in control…I feel honored. I feel their trust. A mix of serious concern (for their safety) and waves of pleasure flood my mind. I can always see in their eyes when the session moves from “fun” to the realization that they are dependent on me…completely…they are vulnerable.
I love this moment…I lean in and give her a kiss to reassure her that she hasn’t misplaced her trust…and then I watch her melt into surrender…and the fun begins: she moves, she reaches, she grabs…the ropes become a part of her, an extension of her sexual desire…and I smile, my intentions met.
The above describes much of what you’ll see in the video (shot by Joel of Kamenwati Productions) below from a Halloween event last weekend. My partner, spontaneously volunteered…and this is what she got:
I hope you enjoyed the video…and I would well wishes to everyone recovering from Sandy on the east coast my heart is with you all,
xxx conchita.
“What kind of party is this?”
I have heard it time and time again, concerning my events or smaller get togethers.
The simple answer is:
“It’s an intimate event for friends and lovers.”
The implied meaning being:
This is an adult-themed sexually-charged party, for those who comfortable enough with themselves and their loved ones to explore and express their desires in a respectful and safe manner.
Response:
“Oh so it’s a swinger party!”
Answer:
“No, this is a party for everyone, inclusive of all orientations, genders, fetishes, disabilities…abilities…shapes…sizes, etcetera.”
Question:
“Do people have sex?”
Response:
“If they want; no, if they do not want.”
Question:
“Are they naked?”
Answer:
“No, usually it’s just me…and anyone else who I am successful at undressing.”
I suppose the short of it is:
I wanted to create an atmosphere of sensual abandon, not a place of a singular or exclusive mindset, rather an INCLUSIVE mindset…a space where people perhaps get to be and do things they have only fantasized about in erotic imaginings. It’s a rather ambitious mission statement I realize, but it’s mine…and my only wish is to make it OUR REALITY.
As my friend Marselette always says, “Party on, or move on.”
xxx conchita.
(image credit: www.bpsproductions.com)
This weekend will be my first private event in a long while, and to say I am excited would be an understatement.
I began throwing events in NYC almost 10 years ago and have always had partners as I enjoy the discovery of collaboration. This event is in collaboration with Sax DMA from The Vanilla Party (check their blog HERE, tasty images abound!), and promises to be a rather eclectic and entertaining new beginning. As you know, if you have perused any aspect of my blog, I enjoy fantasy and costume paired with anything erotic, and you can be sure this event will encompass all three of those essential components!
1. Fantasy: A “Back to School” theme
2. Costume: Nerds, sexy school girls, pervy gym coaches, jocks, and geeks will represent
3. Erotic: I am not sure I have ever thrown a party where everyone actually kept their clothes on!
The most compelling part of this event is that it is NOT for any single group or subgroup (swingers, hipsters, BDSM, fetish, alt, gay, straight, black., white…you get the idea), this event is for EVERYONE!
Everyone who desires a bit more titillation and substance from their night-out, those who want to go home with memories that make them grin and maybe a bite mark or two to make them cringe the next day…and then smile!
When I started throwing parties it was to bring people together, to offer a space that would foster the development a unique network of friends who don’t judge rather who love, accept, and encourage. I have that. I am thankful…and to be honest I just want to keep it going…for YOU…for me!
and now…LET’S FUCKING GET THIS PARTY STARTED!!!
xxx conchita.
It’s great to be a nerd, it’s great to be a nerd
The only light we ever see is from our moniter
We argue about comic books and internet connections
The biggest highlight of the year is the star trek convention
Our town’s not big enough to sign up any stars
But we once met a red shirt who was phasered by a borg
(man, he knew mr. sulu!) (what? )
It’s great to be a nerd, it’s great to be a nerd
We wear our star trek uniforms and talk like captain kirk
We have our own heroes who we try to emulate
I dream of one day being as sexy as bill gates
We hate watching sports ’cause we’re reading carl sagan
But we’d watch the olympics if they played dungeons and dragons
(I’m a hobbitt! ha ha ha ha!)
It’s great to be a nerd, it’s great to be a nerd
We think tolkein was a genius and shakespeare was a turd
We rarely get a date or get talked to by a girl
Unless they’re having trouble with their algebra homework
We’re emotionally bereft and we’re sexually frustrated
But we can download photographs of agent scully naked
It’s great to be a nerd, it’s great to be a nerd
We know the truth is out there but we’d have to leave our room
We are the nerds in your neighbourhood
Polyester’s a fashion statement
But there’s more room on the beach for you
’cause we’re locked in our basement
It’s great to be a nerd, it’s great to be a nerd
We like to wear colours that do not appear in nature
It’s great to be a
Poorly-dressed fashionless
Star trekking roleplaying
Ninety pound when wet down
Pasty skinned pop drinking
Underfed genius
Yes, it’s great to be a nerd
(from Arrogant Worms)
Last night I was Perusing my beautiful friend Stephanie Pastease’s Youtube channel (Sexy Fun 101) and discovered both a tit-illating (you know where that pun’s going) and entertaining new product:
Glow-in-the-Dark Pastease® breast pasties (on Sale for $6.99)
Now I have to say, the product itself is so ingenius, it defies description…it simply MUST be experienced!
(observe)
Mesmerizing is it not?
Yes, it is.
Aside from Stephanie’s infectious giggle…her bounce…does quite a lot for the mood! After a challenging day at work, we could all use a pair of glowing, vivacious breasts to make us feel at once happy-and-horny. There is just something about decorated nipples that ALWAYS makes me smile…
It sort of got me thinking…how great would it be it host a glow-in-the-dark no-pajama Pastease party?!?!
Who’s game?
I am, xxx c.
This Saturday was one to remember…yes, it was a WILD NIGHT: we celebrated, we danced, we partied, we laughed, we kissed, we gave lap dances, we sang, we drank, we talked, we shared…but more than that: WE LOVED ONE ANOTHER…and that is the memory I (we) can hold on to FOREVER! Cheers to Wild Nights! xxx c.
Wild nights! Wild nights!
Were I with thee,
Wild nights should be
Our luxury!Futile the winds
To a heart in port,
Done with the compass,
Done with the chart.Rowing in Eden!
Ah! the sea!
Might I but moor
To-night in thee!
THE MONSTER SHOW…will be an evening centered around fantasy, make believe, art…and INDULGENCE!
This is an intimate Halloween event meant to tantalize your senses, test your creativity, and allow for your inhibitions to be set free!
We want you to…RELEASE YOUR MONSTER!!!
GROWL…ROAR…SCREAM!
(Just don’t scratch or bite…unless requested, heehee)
*We invite you to dress for the occasion, you do not need to be monstrous, but if you would like to get into the Halloween spirit then we encourage that completely
*Entry is FREE
*We will have a BODYPAINT ARTIST on-hand to offer a little extra devilish encouragement
*There will be a LIVE dj spinning all night…everything from what you love now, to what you loved then
*DRINK SPECIALS will last the night through…nothing like a little “witches brew” to get you in the mood!
*LIVE ENTERTAIMENT – we will have some special guests to ensure that you are kept on-edge!
*INTERACTIVE arts…what happens when you let monsters play together???
The venue is east village, relaxed, lounge style. If you like, you have the ability to enjoy dinner or appetizers (Italian and delicious). There is space to sit and chat or dance and mingle. The vibe is INTIMATE. We are very lucky to have been given this space and the opportunity to enjoy the party…as WE desire!
We have taken care to invite our friends to attend and participate in this event and we THANK YOU in advance for helping to make this night so Deliciously DEVIOUS!
WITH THAT…WE HOPE THAT YOU WILL COME OUT…READY TO HOWL THE NIGHT AWAY!!!! WITH ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS…BECAUSE THIS IS GOING TO BE…YOUR NIGHT TO BE A COMPLETE MONSTER!!!!!!
XXX
Conchita, Meli, Jessica, Gio, & Mark.
Further info: 917-940-1750
Time: 10PM – 4AM
Location: Il Bagatto Lounge/192 East 2nd Street, NYC
