This is of course different from Multiple Personality Disorder, which is a mental diagnosis/disorder…rather, I refer to our desire, need even, to create disparate parts of self in order to feel…complete. You may be asking:
How in the world did she get from playing dress-up to psychological development?
Well…quite naturally actually! I am simply understanding our desires for play…as a manifestation of our:
our Personality Collage!
A healthy expression of the heterogeneous parts of ourselves as distinct personae as opposed to integrated self-states…and what better way to achieve that therapuetic exercise than through:
Assuming the identity of an imagined and exaggerated yet appealing “other” was a part of everyone’s childhood…why not re-enact such playful behavior as an adult…from a more sensual perspective? And why not appeal to that nearly iconic archetype:
The Naughty School Girl
Here we arrive at our theme, Sex-Toy Tuesday has inspired this entry suggesting what I find to be perhaps the most tantalizing aphrodisiac of all…foreplay that not only employs the external:
a short play skirt and a prim white blouse
BUT…also pulls on the internal:
the naughty school girl…within us ALL!
I realize that the fall serves for ample opportunities to get dressed-up…and so this year…I challenge you to draw on some of the lesser developed sensual-selves within you…and don a costume that engenders erotic exploration with your partner…both psychologically and…PHYSICALLY!
Happy Play-Time! …xxx c.