I may have blogged this before in fact I am almost sure I did, but in the absence of any original thoughts today perhaps I’ll delve back into older thoughts, that today feel pertinent and are certainly worth a re-analysis.
As many women do, I often receive pictures of men’s junk. Typically in an erect state, this disembodied member carries less-than-no sexual appeal to me.
(Women I think you can agree with me on this, even IF you have told HIM differently. Yes to it’s true men, hurting a man’s ego is a sin, we would prefer to lie…sometimes. I would say, some of you men do the same…as I think my pussy looks nothing like a “butterfly.”)
Am I to imagine myself impaled on your oh-so-swollen and gigantic phallus? Or fantasize about what it would be like thrust down my oh-so-slippery throat?
I KNOW you men imagine these things in great detail, it’s YOUR PENIS after all and it’s “fucking amazing” because of that fact…is it? I mean, isn’t it?!
Of course it is…
To YOU.
Men, we see it (genitalia) a bit differently.
Perhaps, or rather due to, society’s need to shame the female nether regions we women often enact hang-ups concerning genitalia—yours and ours.
We don’t particularly “like” the look of your junk (no worries many of us love the way it feels), and more often than that we don’t particularly “like” the look of OUR OWN JUNK (again no worries many of us love the way it tastes).
Why the discrepancy? Between how men and women view their own sex organs?
Why the self-pussy-hate?
Why don’t we love our oddly-colored-awkward folds with the same tenacity you men flout your lumpy-cylindrical-oft’ crooked-attached-to-octopus-balls genitalia with?
I’ll tell you why.
Because genitalia, men, women, animal, are ALL WEIRD looking. Not that weird is bad, it’s not…it’s damn functional, but we need to reach a middle ground here. How about this:
Men’s hard penises are not instant visual aphrodisiacs & women’s vaginas no not look like “butterflies.” Neither one is beautiful, or bad…BOTH ARE WEIRD.
Once I heard Sandra Bernhard in an interview say,
“Come on who are we kidding? All genitalia are unattractive! They look like sea anemone.”
I remember feeling indignant after the first half of that statement, and shaking my head in complete agreement upon hearing the second.
They are. They do!
So what are we to take from all of this?
Two things, I think:
1. I would like to receive fewer pictures of penises.
2. I would like to receive ANY pictures of vagina.
And I will start:
There…that should balance things out a bit!
(And Yes THAT IS ME, incidentally.)
NOW its your turn, ladies! I’m waiting!!
Xxx c.
Maybe it’s just me, but I never understood a man’s desire to have his cock worshiped and think of it as a different entity separate from his own. I remember my first sex partner, he used to refer to his cock in the third person, as if it were his best friend. He’d say things like; I can resist temptation but “HE” (pointing to it) can’t, so you need to help “HIM” please… One thing I’ve learned long time ago, the bigger the dick the bigger a man’s ego at how good he’s in bed, and truth be told that’s rarely the case. A man with such endowment is always a let down, as he’s always looking for someone to pleasure him, after all doesn’t he have way “much” to offer??? Don’t think so.
I actually find the erect penis incredibly arousing. Not a fan of my vagina as I do think it’s weird looking. I’m not sure how to change my views on my own body though. I only think mine is strange though. I have neutral feelings toward vaginas in general though. I’m an ob nurse so much of mu neutrality comes from seeing them all the time.
I think most vaginas are beautiful, but most women don’t seem to think so.
come now! aesthetically you cannot honestly say that! no genitalia is “beautiful”!
i did say that and haven’t changed my mind since my original post, lol! i had this argument with one of my chinese classmates back in grad school and i still think they are beautiful (in most cases)!