After a mighty fine weekend of expressing some seriously pent-up sexual desire (no worries, I will blog about that later in the week)…I find myself, on this SEX TOY TUESDAY, thinking about sex “extras” or those accoutrement that make erotic play more enjoyable overall…and in meditating about lubricants, bullets, etc…my mind wandered to one product that has been essential to facilitating that type of sexual play that some of us find aversive:
Yes, I said it. And I am here to say that there are ways (methods) to make anal sex quite pleasant and even downright hot (and not painful) if done with care.
*NOTE: For those interested in educating themselves further on the ins-and-outs of anal sex, I confidently refer you to Tristen Taormino‘s site/DVD’s, Burning Angel.com, she is sexy, assured, and above all extremely knowledgeable about anal sex and how to ensure that anal is: safe, painless, and pleasureful!
What makes it Hot for me? Well other than employing some of Tristan’s helpful techniques…the most helpful anal-sex-aide for me has been:
Why? Well there are few reason…it is MINTY FRESH, a quality that one of the popular brands plays on:
- Minty fresh scent and flavor (although it’s not tat tasty die to the paste-like texture I think).
- Consistency the texture of paste, ensures that the product stays-put.
- A cooling sensation, from the mint, that desensitizes the anal-area without causing sensation loss for your male-partner (this is an important quality as other numbing products such as Anal Ease can create a issue related to being too-numb).
And so…with that, on this Sunny (NYC) Sex Toy Tuesday…I beg you to go forward with you sexual-endeavors, mindfully of course, and do not be afraid to…to something…a little new…different…maybe it’s just a matter of having the right…help…to ease into it…so to speak!
Okay enough with my silly puns,
Enjoy your day & Happy Sex! xxx c.